Showing posts with label mother. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mother. Show all posts

Thursday, August 13, 2015

Mother Teresa would spend time simply being present with the poor

 Mother Teresa pen

Mother  Teresa's  own  desire to  live with  the  poor, led her  to  dwell  in  their  midst  to 
share  their  poverty . 

Beyond  whatever  material  assistance she  gave  to  the  poor , she  made  it  a  point 
to , first  of  all , sit with  them, listen to  them  and  comfort  them.

She  would  spend  time  simply being  present  with  the  poor, face to  face  and  heart  to  heart with those  who  had  no  one -  knowing that  no  amount  of  blankets  or  bricks  could  warm the  human heart, nor any government  program  could give  the  gift of  belonging

Friday, July 31, 2015

God loves a cheerful giver

Each one must do as he has made up his mind, not reluctantly or under pressure, for God loves a cheerful giver. He gives most who gives with joy. If in your work you have difficulties accept them with joy, with a big smile.

The best way to show gratitude to God and people is to accept everything with Joy.

Mother Teresa

Thursday, July 23, 2015

Mother Teresa on Family members:

Mother Teresa on Family members:
Peace and war start within our own house. Let us start by loving our own family members. Familiarity breeds contempt and so sometimes it is hard for us to even smile at one other. It is easy to love those who live far away, but it is not always easy to love those who live right next to us. But Mother Teresa says we must love our family members.

For example:
It is easier to offer food to feed the hunger of a homeless person on the street, but it is difficult to comfort the loneliness of aging parents living with us, who do not feel loved.

Monday, July 20, 2015

Mother Teresa on Compassion

Mother Teresa on Compassion
Have a deep compassion for people.
To be able to have a heart full of compassion, we need to pray.
Especially be kind and loving to the poor. We think we do so much for the poor, but it is they who make us rich. We are in debt to them.

Imagine a situation:
We help a poor person with a small amount of money or small quantity of food, the small portion maybe insignificant for us, but for the poor person, that much less money or food he has to arrange, whereby he may bless us in his heart, which makes us rich.

Sunday, July 12, 2015

The more you care about the powerless, the more power you have.

Mother Teresa principle:
The more you care about the powerless, the more power you have. The more you serve people with no influence, the more influence God gives you. The more you humble yourself, the more you are honored by others.

This is how I have understood this principle:
We sympathize with powerless people but when it is in our own family, our own career or our own reputation is at stake, then we do not take the risk and we normally support the people with power.

Often the odds are against the powerless people, they are likely to lose. Even if they are right and in our hearts we support them, but supporting the powerless is to risk failure, disapproval, end of a career, end of promotion etc. So we love the powerless, but we tend to follow the powerful people, we do what is respectable.

However, not every powerless person is right and not every powerless person's issues are important. But some are. From time to time we will discover a powerless person who needs the kind of help we can give, because of our position and our belief we should help that powerless person.
Later on when we look back at our life, we may conclude that fighting for a few powerless people was one of the most meaningful things we ever did.

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Mother Teresa's BBC interview

In 1968, Mother Teresa visited England and the BBC requested a TV interview of Mother Teresa.

The interviewer was Malcom Mudderidge, of BBC TV

During the interview, Mother Teresa was very nervous in front of the cameras and somewhat faulty in speech. The Interview was a disaster and the producers doubted for a while if it was worth showing except for late at night.

Finally it was shown on Sunday evening. The interview had an extraordinary effect on the viewers.  Something about the woman whose answers to a highly professional interviewer were so perfectly simple and perfectly truthful that the interviewer felt uneasy and had difficulty continuing the interview for the allocated half hour seemed to have touched the nation.

Malcolm himself had been profoundly impressed by Mother Teresa, he said "It was for me one of those special occasions when a face given to unknown seems to stand out from all other faces as uniquely separate and uniquely significant".

 

In fact the response to the interview proved to be greater than any other comparable program.

Contributions and letters poured in from rich, poor, educated, uneducated, young and old.

One woman wrote "this woman spoke to me as no one ever has and I feel I must help her".

Another man wrote "The words of Mother Teresa touch my heart like an arrow".

By public demand they had to air the interview several times.

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Violence of the tongue is very real

The quickest and the surest way towards thoughtfulness is the tongue. Use the tongue for the good of others, you will also speak well of others. 

Violence of the tongue is very real, sharper than any knife, wounding and creating bitterness that only the grace of God can heal. So the tongue must be absolutely clean to speak words of comfort,  faith and Love
Violence of the tongue is very real


Thursday, July 17, 2014

Sin and Forgiveness by Mother Teresa

Sin and Forgiveness
When we realize that we are all sinners
needing forgiveness. It will be easy for
us to forgive others. We have to be forgiven
in order to forgive.
Unless we understand this, it will be very hard
for us to say the words "We forgive you" to
anyone who comes our way.

Monday, June 23, 2014

Put your hand in His hand and walk alone with Him

Mother Teresa was 12 years old
when she first felt the desire to be a nun,
she was living with her parents in Skopje,
Yugoslavia now Macedonia.

Later on when she was leaving home,
her mother was not in favor of her
becoming a sister. But when she realized
that it was God's calling and she will not
be able to withhold her daughter, she
said something strange to her daughter
"Put your hand in His hand and
Walk alone with Him".
That was how Mother Teresa lived,
she may be surrounded by many people,
yet they lived alone with Jesus.

Monday, February 17, 2014

Mother Teresa on power

http://www.miranijewelers.com/marlen.htm
Mother Teresa principle:
The more you care about the powerless, the more power you have. The more you serve with no influence, the more influence God gives you. The more you humble yourself, the more you are honored by others.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Mother Teresa on Giving

Mother Teresa on Giving

We must give what will cost us something. This, then is giving,
not just what we can live without but what we cannot live without or we don't want to live without, something we really like.
Then our gift becomes a sacrifice, which will have value before God.

Mother Teresa

Friday, October 18, 2013

Mother Teresa on Sharing

Accept the gifts of God and be deeply grateful. If He has given you great wealth, make good use of it, try to share it with others, with those who do not have anything.
Always share with others because even with a little help you may save them from becoming distressed. 
And do not take more than you need, that's all. Just accept whatever comes.

Mother Teresa

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Humility by Mother Teresa

Humility by Mother Teresa
  • We should have a humble and meek heart.
  • We learn humility through accepting humiliations cheerfully.
  • Do not let any chance pass you by. It is easy to be angry, self centered, selfish and condescending, but we have been created for greater things.
  • So why stoop down to things that will spoil the beauty of our hearts.

Mother Teresa

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Why not try and hold your tongue? You know what you can do but you do not know how much the other person can bear. Mother Teresa

Why not try and hold your tongue?
You know what you can do but  you do not know how much the other person can bear.
Mother Teresa

Monday, July 8, 2013

Mother Teresa said "I fear just one thing: money! Greed - the love of money"

When Mother has a real problem: like finding a roof for lepers, a home for children(1), she goes to ask. And for every big donation of money she always has an immediate application in building a home, a hospital, a shelter... But never Mother Teresa does fund raising. The sisters know it very well: when there is no food, a need for a bigger place or need for money to be able to build or buy a house for the poor, Mother invites all the sisters to pray and often organizes adoration to put the matter in Gods'Hands. A beautiful example of this can be seen in one of the videos on Mother (by An and Jeannet Petrie).

At the same time Mother is scrupulously looking and checking how every single penny in a convent is spent. The sisters have to answer this every time she comes to visit. Every cent is a gift for the poor.
Mother herself believes that she will have to answer to Jesus for every single penny people gave her, for every word she spoke, for every act she put. Because she wants her surrender to God, her trust in Him and her love for Him, so pure, so perfect, so beautiful... There should not be a spot, a hidden gesture, a wasted minute, a spoiled penny... Only when we can imagine a love so deep and honest, a devotion so pure, we can understand how deeply Mother was involved to a good use of the money people gave her.
When we read this words of her, we can understand better maybe:

"I fear just one thing: money! Greed - the love of money - was what motivated Judas to sell Jesus." (M. Theresa)

Saturday, May 18, 2013

Sharing in Mother's work with a sari.

ne day a lady came to Mother Teresa dressed in a very expensive sari. She told Mother Teresa "Mother, I want to share in your work." Mother Teresa prayed for a moment to get the right answer to give her about sharing in her work, and she told her "I would begin with the sari. You start buying a cheaper sari each month, and the money you save, you bring it to me for the poor."
 



So the lady started buying cheaper saris and she told Mother Teresa that it had not only changed her life, but She really understood sharing, and the lady added that she had received much more than she had given.       

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Do small things with great love: Mother Teresa

o the Good God nothing is little, because He is so Great & we so small, that is why He stoops down & takes the trouble to make those little things for us. To give us a chance to prove our love for Him. Because He makes them they are very Great.

 Be faithful in little practices of love, of little sacrifices, of the little interior modifications, of little fidelities to rule, which will build in you the life of holiness, make you Christ like.

 Do not look for big things, just do small things with great love, the smaller the thing the greater must be our love.
 Mother Teresa    

  

Friday, October 19, 2012

Mother Teresa's letter to Archbishop

Place: Asansol, India               Date: 25th January 1947


Mother Teresa wrote to Archbishop Periea seeking permission to begin work with the poorest of the poor (only a few lines are written below)

Your Grace,

The longing to give all to our Lord and make many souls do the same remains the same.

I am aware that if the work begins than there will be plenty of loneliness, suffering & humiliations for me.

I have been burning with longing to love Him as He as never been loved before.

Please excuse this paper as I have no other kind. I am practicing Franciscan poverty.
It is lovely to be poor and to be free from so many things.

Pray for me

Your devoted child in Jesus Christ

Mary Teresa